HIS PRESENT

Romantic, soft, and sensual you will be the perfect present waiting under the Yule tree for your love wearing Blacklace's new Christmas edition of  Maia.  Available in this lovely copper color and two more traditional Christmas colors with the red or green set.  I paired this with Miamai's Barbarella  Stilettos in gold the beautiful studs on the heel and toe look more like diamondsproviding the perfect amount of sparkle. Classical and sexy Miamai's Barbarella Stilettos are the essential Holiday shoe.  Now I have a jewelry find for you, the designer is Lukrezia Laval and her shop is called Silent Woods.  This little off the beaten path shop offers some of the best jewelry embracing the antique and romantic look you can find.  The truly lovely part is that the prices will not leave you in sticker shock.  I decided on Silent Woods Jheris Collection in Mother of Pearl which went well with the antique lace of Blacklace's Maia.  I finished this look with LeLutka's Moss hair in Powder which is that perfect messy sexy hair, IKON Eternal eyes in Peak, and the Cassiopea skin by Glam Affair.

 

SEXZ @ THE ROCKABILLY FASHION FAIR

Zee of SexZ is just nuts for Rockabilly and who can blame her!  It is fun, edgy, and sexy all in one big package.  Not to mention the great music!  So it is no surprise at all that SexZ is in The Rockabilly Fashion Fair!  This great fair opened on Sunday the 3rd and runs till Nov. 23rd!  Make sure to stop by hunt down the SexZ booth for both of these great breasty gal outfits!  I am in the ..:sexZ:.. KeyholeDress in BlueLeo with Tango appliers.  Allie is in the really nummy ..:sexZ:.. TwistyTop & RawrShorts with Tango and PhatAzz appliers! 

The Rockabilly Fashion Fair

Nov. 3rd ~ Nov. 23rd

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SEXZ SPIDAH

This I your absolute last chance to get this cute ..:sexZ:..ShirtDress dress on sale at Bewbapalooza!  On the 5th of November this dress heads to the main store and full price!  For all you lovely goth boobie ladies and even those whom are just a little gothy this is a must have dress!  You have five different dresses to choose from and can be used with or without mesh breasts.  I am loving the Spidah dress.  To cute!  Make sure you hurry because the clock is ticking!  Tick Tock!

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IMMERSE IS BACK

Just a quick little blog to announce that my friend Lilly Juno is back and her store Immerse is open for business!  She is starting up again with a great release in the  Autumn Meadows Chair.  This chair comes in 4 colors and has a cute back pillow to snuggle into with wonderful animations for both male and female.  Today all four versions of this chair are on sale for 75L each.  Pick them up today because tomorrow they go back to the normal price of 300L soon!

IMMERSE

WATCHING YOU.

Have you ever felt like someone was watching you?  I have.  It is disturbing and makes you look around as you go about your life.  You stand in the dark and stare out the window trying to glimpse the person you can feel staring.  People call you paranoid and then one day you realize that you may be paranoid but somebody IS watching you!  Staring into your house while you go about your business.  Following you as you shop, work, and spend time with those you love.  The photographs start arriving and finally you loose it!  You buy a big dog named Killer, a gun, and a new alarm system.  You change your routine, leave your job, sometimes your employer asks you to leave, or fires you because it is not only affecting you but everyone you work with. Finally you become so desperate you move and then somehow the person always finds you and the terror starts all over again. 

Over 3 million people are stalked every year.  Millions are stalked online alone.  It is one of the most terrifying experiences you could ever go through.  There is a truth that people do not want to admit, stalking and violent crimes are linked.  Stalkers purposely try to ruin their victims lives by starting false rumors, and making a concentrated effort to sabotage their victims work and personal lives.  I took these pictures at first because they were unique and I needed to blog my friend Zee's items.  Then I sat back thinking about when I was stalked and the terror I experienced.  In the end I could not do this blog light heartedly. 

I have been stalked twice in my life.  Once by an ex who kidnapped my cats and threatened myself and my family with violence.  He made an effort to spend time with anyone who had any link with me at all.  He would call my workplace and show up unexpectedly at restaurants, bars, or at friends homes.  I remembered the effort my friends and mother made to drive me to and from work.  One friend even going as far to sit all night outside my house so I would sleep.  I remember how dismissive the police officer was when my stalker crashed a friends car outside my house.  The heart stopping feeling when I was told how he would sit across the street in the park and dry fire a gun at my head.  He had some of my brothers convinced that I was delusional and that he loved me.  He convinced them that he was the injured party in our relationship.  It ended badly but I survived and have learned to live through what happened.  I like to think that I even thrive.

The second time was online and the man told me where I lived.  Described my house to me and told me everything he could find online about me.  I would log in to chat with friends and suddenly there he was.  It ended because a good hearted hacker took action.

Honestly thinking and writing about this makes my heart pound, and I find it hard to breath.

We have even witnessed stalking in SecondLife.  Very public cases endured by the BOSL founder and the BOSL staff , and also very private cases amongst our friends and virtual family.  I have even had friends close their accounts and have to create new avatars to escape their tormentors or just leave SL never to return because they were afraid to log in.   Here are some facts that we all should know.  More women then men are stalked totaling 67 percent of all cases.  Women are usually stalked by men but women stalk women also and men face the same terror when they are victims of stalking.  If you think a woman is incapable of violence then you are mistaken.  I urge you all to educate yourselves and visit Futures Without Violence, WebMD article: How to protect yourself from a stalker., and Cyber Stalking Prevention .  Everyone deserves a life lived without terror be it physical or virtual. 

I need to apologize to Zee the owner of SexZ.  I had started these photos to blog her items and in the end they became an educational tool.  In no way does Zee or her store SexZ condone stalking or violence.  She is a strong powerful woman whom I have immense respect for. 

Keep yourself safe in this world and the physical world.  No one can do it for you.  Be proactive for yourself.

Kalia

 

 



 

I WANT CANDY

 

Oh my events and happenings all over the grid.  First is this cute MagAnimal on my shoulder from Miamai for the Wizarding Faire 2013.  I am not sure how long this lasts so I would head over this weekend.  Next is 1 Hundred. with the super adorable Sweet Princess Dress and Sweet Princess Headband at  The Candy Fair.  The Candy Fair runs from Oct 4th to the 18th!  Also 1 Hundred. is in The Body Modification Expo  which runs from Oct 10th to Nov 3rd.  1 Hundred. has a tattoo at the Expo called Love Stinks.  You can get this tattoo for either your chest or thigh.  Each version comes with either Tango or PhatAzz appliers.  Zuri Rayna has Antique Pearls for a group gift right now and N-core finishes this off with their group gift Pink Floral Mesh shoes!  When you add all the pieces together you come up with this!  Now where is my lollipop?  I want Candy! 

 

CAT EYES @ EARTHSTONES

One of the aspects of Secondlife that I love is the ability to change how your avatar looks.  But.. yes there is always a but!  No matter what you look you strive for, the eyes you choose to wear can make or break the final creation.  In the physical world eyes are a window into the soul and this holds true for your avatar, nothing is more disappointing then when you look at this amazing avatar and their eyes are flat with no character.  It is like they just opened up the library section of the inventory and picked eyes made in 2003, it completely kills the effect.  So when EarthStones released the Cat Eyes Collection I was very excited to see what Abraxxa had created.   After unpacking a small selection of the 13 color available I wore the Sapphire Cat Eyes and was floored.  These eyes are gorgeous!  The depth and richness of color are perfectly blended with a precisely placed light reflection.  I love how the eyes also have a subtle sheen on them alluding to moisture.  These eyes will add character to your avatars look and are out just in time for the Halloween season. 

Cat Eyes @ EarthStones

EarthStones Cat Eyes - Demonic

EarthStones Cat Eyes - Golden Amber

EarthStones Cat Eyes - Emerald

EarthStones Cat Eyes - Silver

EarthStones Cat Eyes - Sapphire
Cat Eyes @ EarthStones

The Cat Eyes come in lens case packaging that held my hand out as it automatically unpacked, totally negating the need for me to place out a prim to unpack.   This packaging can be placed out in your home on the bedroom dresser or bathroom sink to help create more visual interest. 

Cat Eyes @ EarthStones





My Skin is Glam Affair - Dark Side - Ginny 06
My Hair is [e] Caramel
My Ears are .:: TBP ::. Elf Ears (not available)